Tuesday, July 4, 2023

Gift of Sweet Grass and Wild Sage


Reflections on Wounded Knee

     As I looked upon the mass grave I felt tears well up in my eyes and a helpless anger filled me.  I thought of conversation between God and Cain immediately after the murder of Abel. 

“…now you are cursed from the ground, which has opened its mouth to receive your brother’s blood from your hand.” (Genesis 4:11)

     Is there an act of repentance which could undo the scar inflicted on this place?  The population of Wounded Knee continues to decline and its people have scattered.  I pondered this as I loaded my bike, received a blessing from Fr. Harold, and pedaled east.

     Twenty miles later, I passed through the village of Batesland, South Dakota (population 100).  I breathed a sigh of relief that there was a small store which sold frozen sandwiches and made available a microwave to travelers.  It was air conditioned, and I could feel much of the accumulated stress cycling from cycling in the heat.  The store had a small table (as do most of the small stores in region) and I sat down and started eating my micro waved burrito.

      There was a television turned in the dining area.  I remember from my youth that there were classic western movies and televisions showed broadcasted on Saturday afternoons (in the days before you could watch whatever you wanted to watch whenever you wanted to watch it).  The show “Raw Hide” began as I began to eat.  I have not seen this show in over 50 years, though the theme song often bounces within my head.  It is horribly racist and I could feel my anxiety rise.

       The clerk at the store said I could turn the channel if I wanted.   I asked if it would be okay if I was to turn it off, and she consented.  Her name is Emily and she began to chat with me as I ate.  Though it was over 90 degrees outside, every inch of her was covered in clothing. She wore a long sleeve shirt and a skirt which covered here ankles.  She even wore a knit cap on her head.  She was intrigued about the possibility of bicycling across the country.  She had never been more than 10 miles from Batesland.  Over the course of our conversation she mentioned that her mother was about to “make her journey.”  It was only after a confused silence did I realize that this was the Lakota term for death.

      As I sat there in the cool silence finishing up lunch, she disappeared to the back room.  A few minutes later she appeared with a baggie which looked to be filled with marijuana and a plant with long leaves which had been woven into the braids.  She informed me that this was wild sage and braided sweat grass.  To breathe the smoke caused from burning such plants will cause healing.  She gave me the plants as a present and ignited some there on the table in the store.  We sat and inhaled the sweet smoke.  I was deeply moved, and thanked her.

      After she presented me with these gifts I told her that I was making a photo diary of the kind people I have met along the way and would she mind if I took her photo?  She looked down at the ground and said “I don’t look so good in photos”.  I replied “you are beautiful!”  One of the blessings that come from becoming an old man is that you get to say such things. 

       With some embarrassment, she sat down and allowed me to take her photograph.  I gave her a hug and proceeded to cycle towards the town of Martin.       

      “Learn to get in touch with the silence within yourself, and know that everything in life has purpose.  There are no mistakes, no coincidences, all events are blessings given to us to learn from”- Elizabeth Kubler-Ross

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